Saturday, August 25, 2012

See Me... Be A USER!!

I posted right before I left for vacation and I shared with you that I had lost 23 pounds.  I am happy to say I came back from vacation STILL weighing 23 pounds lighter.  I must admit I was a little nervous considering how fresh the food was in West Palm Beach, FL.  However, being true to who you are as my family and friends, you still held me accountable.  I received a text from a very, very good friend Henreka saying, "You bet not come back one pound heavier than when you left." (Believe me, she was not playing!)

So with that in mind, I took to walking on the beach or swimming lapses in the pool, which wore my tail out. However, it kept me accountable which kept me in check.

Now that I've been back, I'm having to refocus and re-motivate to get back into a routine. To help me get to that point, I reached out to a fellow public relations peer at NC A&T and Aggie Alum, Calvin T. Williams, Jr.  

Calvin is the founder and managing director of Explosive Training & Sports Management, LLC in Raleigh, NC.  The organization markets, manages, and trains professionals and aspiring professional athletes. Calvin spent four years playing professional arena football. He organizes athletic training sessions to assist athletes in strength, condition, speed, and agility. Check him out at: www.the-etsm.com .

Read how he breaks healthy living into four parts with the Acronym USER :

1) UNDERSTAND- "The challenge you will face."

  • Rome wasn't built in a day and neither will the perfect body. It is good to seek out professional consultations, so that your goals can be realistically assessed and realistic time tables can be established. Once this has been done you can begin setting short term goals to help you get on the way to your long term goal. (Winning battles is ultimately what helps you win the war) 
2) SURROUND- "Yourself with support systems"
  • No matter how motivated you are, you WILL face adversity, bumps in the road and challenges that seem impossible to overcome. Here is where having people that support and believe in you come in handy. Not only will you feel great that someone wishes to see you succeed, you become re-energized and get right back on your path to success.
3) EMBRACING-"Lifestyle change & Eliminating Negativity"
  • It took a lifetime to learn the bad habits, so realize that unlearning them is not going to just happen because you decided to live healthy now. The most unsuccessful people that wish to lose weight are those that "diet". However, those that make small changes in HOW they eat, achieve long term success. It can be as simple as replacing unhealthy snacks with healthy snacks and drinking more water this month. Then as you get more comfortable, learn portion control, how to read food labels, structuring meals based around proteins, carbs and "good fats" and so on. Do you know how a fit persons body and an unfit persons body uses sugar is totally different? Fit people's bodies use sugar for energy as opposed to unfit people's body that use sugar as (for lack of better words) a poison. Something to use as motivation when working out that you can actually reward yourself with sweets (in moderation) the more fit you are! 
  • The less negative individuals you surround yourself with the more positive your outlook of life will become. Because all the people that point out all the negative aspects of everything will no longer be around! Lets face it, life has ups and downs but who needs the person around that is telling you why you can't do something, we all need the person around that tells us we CAN do something. Just remember the saying, "Whether you think you can or think you can't, you are right!" So subtract the negative Neds and Nancys from your life and add in the positive Paul and Patricia.
4) REMEMBER- "Why you wish to accomplish your goal"
  • This is the most important motivating factor, the emotional "why" that triggers your want to achieve a health-related goal. After many years in fitness and health settings, I found it hard to relate to people that quit, didn't stay consistent or never started their health/nutrition plans. As I talked with and learned more about people I began to realize that most were forgetting the emotion that sparked their interest in changing. Well, think about that emotion each day, whether it's wanting to look good at the class reunion, trying to attract a person you are interested in, or the doctor told you that you are at risk for diabetes and it scared you. When you consider the emotion that made you want to change and why each time you go to a gym, order a meal, get up late at night for a snack, it will motivate you to make wiser choices and continue striving for your ultimate goal.

There is light at the end of the tunnel and if you are a USER of the methods described above, you can and will see the light shining bright at the end of that tunnel!






Saturday, August 4, 2012

See Me... Through Symbolic Change

For weeks, I have been talking to my mom and my best friend, Karla about some changes I have been experiencing spiritually, emotionally, and mentally.


The changes were for a desire to have a closer relationship with God, to be in a whole relationship with someone and not compromise my values, and to get a clear mental picture of my life purpose.


Between the two of them, I was constantly showered with words of encouragement.  Then one day this week, my mom said something that just clicked for me and I was at peace. She let me know that God would allow my husband to find me, once he had established me where he wanted me.


In sharing this with my best friend, we agreed that because I care and love hard, if I was in a relationship, I would find myself distracted from what God has been doing with me and through me. The next day while sitting in my car before work, I noticed a dragonfly that kept hovering around my car. I decided to look up the symbolism.


Dragonfly - maturity and a depth of character.
Symbolizes change and change in the perspective of self-realization, and the kind of change that has its source in mental and emotional maturity and the understanding of the deeper meaning of life.

So, as you can see, this journey to a better me physically has also become a journey to a mature complete woman.

Oh, by the way, I'm down 23 pounds and a couple clothes sizes.  I am leaving in a few hours headed to West Palm Beach, FL to celebrate!!!!

I am enjoying this journey even if it has come with tears...

Until next time,
       LaWanda